Yo Tommy I don't think you hate women, I just think you don't understand women.
You were brought up in a time when a man's only role was to provide for his family.
I bet that is how you were raised and that is how you acted in your marriage. I don't think you intentionally tried to hurt your W but my guess is she just wanted to heard and understood.
None of us were perfect spouses or we wouldn't be here unless we married sociopaths.
We are all here to learn and grow because we don't ever want to go through this again.
