The definition of misogyny is not only hatred and nothing but hatred towards women. Hatred, dislike OR ingrained prejudice toward women is the definition. And I can't see anyone here screaming "misogynist" at you. Ginger said she can sense misogyny and LH pointed to some misogynistic comments.
Saying you can't be that because you adore your two daughters is kind of like people who say they can't be racist because they have black friends.
Quote two is your personal experience you say and "maybe you shouldn't have generalized"? Changing that sentence to begin with would have made a difference. "My personal experience and some of my friends have been, rather than "A womans sex drive is always strongest" would make a world of difference. That's not being language police. We are not correcting you grammar here, one sentence makes sense, the other is borderline outrageous.
If one person was saying this, fine but several of us have noticed and as you say, call you out on it so as CW said, maybe time to self reflect and consider this can come across as more than just being blunt.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019