"As for the timing when I begin to date again, thanks for your perspective. I think the right approach is to start slowly, tasting a lot of the wares out there, and make good choices. There's more I could say but probably not here."
"A woman's sex drive is always strongest when she wants a man, or wants a child with a man. A woman's sex drive usually (not always) wanes after having children. Male LBS are always susceptible to this trap."
"Stay-at-home moms tend to let things go."
Look Tom we can all do better. I hope this sheds some light on what happened and how you can improve in the future.
Yeah, the first one is something best left unsaid--even if there are both divorced men and women who probably feel the same way.
The mistake in the second one is speaking in absolutes.
I'm not even sure what the third one is relating to. What do they let go? I doubt stay-at-home Moms are all like-minded. Treat each person as an individual. I think Tom is guilting in labeling groups of people--which I just defended him against.
