Losing my mind over my sexless state of marriage.

[BenB]

Many vets may encourage newbies to help others and I have done so as well but I only write what I am certain of and even then, I have always pointed out that I am new here, even a year after posting.

You are giving detailed advice i.e if she tries to hold your hand, remove it and posts that many here have pointed out are misogynist. Your condescending response to Ginger about drinking bleach kind of tells me it is a bit too early perhaps to give such detailed advice. But even after all that, I do believe you mean well and advise away, but at least try to be careful and point out that other vets may chime in to correct you if you are wrong or something.

It seems like you are making an effort to insult me by hinting I am here to get a commentary of my daily life and I'm not here to learn but that is just what I have come to expect from you after reading not only your posts, but also your earlier responses. So yes, you should be called out and I am glad other have and hopefully will in the future.

I can give you some examples of people who learned quickly. Unchien for example I think has been through hell and gives great advice, read RobX if you haven't. But careful to proclaim you arrived here and learned quickly. You have a long way to go still. As do I of course.