Maybe, but more often they don't. Just seems a bit strange coming here asking for advice and clearly making mistakes in ones own relationship, then offering clear instructions to others on what to do in their situations. It's one thing if you suggest GAL activities or even start the post by saying "I'm no expert but" as some newcomers here do, but you are giving detailed instructions.
These are people in tough situations that potentially have no idea you are a newcomer and potentially making life changing decisions based on what someone says who is far from ready to give advice. And frankly, the advice I've seen from you so far is terrible and reeks of misogyny.
The veterans here are vets for a reason, they have seen many, many sitches and their advice is based on what works.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
