Steve, I don’t know what the plan is. My W either talks to them with or without me. I raised the “Are you going to get divorced question” I guess it’s we don’t know. None of this makes any sense. Right before Christmas. It’s the crazy M L C mind.
Oh and Ws older sister is probably coming down to stay with us like she has every winter for the last five years.
The only thing I can think of is that W thought at BD l would bail and she would be free to carry on. But something in my gut said don’t move out, and I haven’t, and she can’t make me. Funny thing is, my L clued me in to some huge economic advantages to me the longer the delay. I don’t want to discuss, but will reveal if this is ever resolved.
Look, W could never make a plan. She could nag about stuff she could have very easily do herself, but is a huge procrastinator and just started her own business last month. So she’s balancing 1 new business (estimated taxes etc) 2 normal kid stuff which she’s neglecting 3 her sister visiting 4 her desires with Om 5 me in a Mlc mind
Every relationship discussion (I don’t iniate,) I tell her she should move out if she feels awkward, then I walk away. Her sister can still stay.
I am dB ing gal gym ic making future travel plans clearing out clutter to sell house making next years holiday plans without W etc
Everyday the pain becomes just a little less, my economic sitch becomes better I bond with my kids more etc
So here’s a funny detachment story. One night, where W usually “works late” the kids were out so I ordered Five guys for us to watch an anime movie. Well food kids and W all showed up at same time. Awkward because we didn’t get her a burger because she’s never home at this time but my kids were nice enough to give her some fries.
Well with Five Guys, there are plenty of fries to share!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
