Steve, I don’t know what the plan is. My W either talks to them with or without me. I raised the “Are you going to get divorced question” I guess it’s we don’t know. None of this makes any sense. Right before Christmas. It’s the crazy M L C mind.
Oh and Ws older sister is probably coming down to stay with us like she has every winter for the last five years.
The only thing I can think of is that W thought at BD l would bail and she would be free to carry on. But something in my gut said don’t move out, and I haven’t, and she can’t make me. Funny thing is, my L clued me in to some huge economic advantages to me the longer the delay. I don’t want to discuss, but will reveal if this is ever resolved.
Look, W could never make a plan. She could nag about stuff she could have very easily do herself, but is a huge procrastinator and just started her own business last month. So she’s balancing 1 new business (estimated taxes etc) 2 normal kid stuff which she’s neglecting 3 her sister visiting 4 her desires with Om 5 me in a Mlc mind
Every relationship discussion (I don’t iniate,) I tell her she should move out if she feels awkward, then I walk away. Her sister can still stay.
I am dB ing gal gym ic making future travel plans clearing out clutter to sell house making next years holiday plans without W etc
Everyday the pain becomes just a little less, my economic sitch becomes better I bond with my kids more etc
So here’s a funny detachment story. One night, where W usually “works late” the kids were out so I ordered Five guys for us to watch an anime movie. Well food kids and W all showed up at same time. Awkward because we didn’t get her a burger because she’s never home at this time but my kids were nice enough to give her some fries.
