Originally Posted by Steve85
"I've decided it would be in everyone's best interest to do Christmas separately. I suggest we nail down exchange times so there is no confusion."
This is how you lead


H "I believe we should come up with a split that is fair and equal and alternate every year. Does this work for you?"

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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