WAW Hired a Divorce Coach (Cont3.)

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I just got a text from my wife that says we need to talk about Christmas.

Text her back:

W:"We need to talk about Xmas"
H:"I agree. I think it is best we get exchange times nailed down so there is no confusion".

Or something similar. See how I agree with the We need to talk.( Talking does not need to be talking. TEXTING or EMAIL is much better for you. ) Then I say what I think is best. Then I say I want to reduce confusion.


Always go in with the mind set of getting agreements, clarification or reducing confusion.

What is YOUR goal for the conversation. YOU lead the direction.