IT MAKES SENSE. I just met with my IC (via phone) and I was discussing the same thing. My H is still here and lately, he has been making little chit chat comments to me, he ate with us for thanksgiving and has been friendly and cordial.
He also is aloof, comes and goes at least 50% of the time with no announcement of where he is going. I feel a little confident and then he does something that doesn’t make me mad at him, he told me what he wants, it makes me mad at me.
Tonight, he left around 5:15 and it is now 9:00. Where is he? I don’t know. When will he be back? I don’t know.
So Cardinal, my friend, I am hugging you from thE web. I totally get it. It makes sense. Just know, there are some of us that totally understand.
