My parents divorced when I was 14 so I went through this as well. Christmas dinner me, my brother and mom. My wife never had that experience, she came from a big family, so great holidays. I mentioned this to her, but that’s logic, she is on pure emotion, so no response. We have no family here, so who knows what next years will be like. I’m planning for fun on the days the kids will be with me, probably at my step mothers. I wanted to give my kids one last good Christmas, both will be in college next year, but no, we have to tell them this Sunday, even though due to covid we will all be in the same house until February at least.
I read DB, DR, Healing from infidelity, etc. DB coaching. It takes two for a marriage, only one to divorce.
