Call me old fashioned...but if your goal is still to get back with your H and save the marriage, is this any better than what he’s doing?

I only ask because you still say one of these days he’ll wake up and it’ll probably be too late.

Also I’m glad you found your confidence. That’s always a good things. But you’ve been turning on the sex appeal towards your H the entire time. Part 1-25. I don’t think your looks is going to make him “wake up”. But seriously I don’t wanna diminish you finding your confidence. That’s awesome and I’m happy for you. I just wish it didn’t take 4 guys to help you find it. I wish you could have on your own.


Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21