So here’s the thing your children are definitely old enough for the truth. Before telling them I think you should ask yourself why you’re telling them it’s all moms doing. Before you do it you better make sure your side of the street is clean. I get the sense from you that you may be controlling.
As far as no compassion and empathy for you. It’s par for the course. She’s “in love” with OM. She’s not in love with you anymore and just sees you as an obstacle to get what she wants to “be happy”.
