Ok I knew something was up today because she was nice and almost normal. I told her that. The discussion she wants with the kids is we both agree, it’s a mutual decision.
I then say let’s talk about asset division. She says, oh, I don’t know isn’t that premature etc. But wants to know why an Ira I had before we met wasn’t part of the division, and why I didn’t want to give her part of my pension (40k per year)
She works 24 hours a week, and can make 100k this year. She says, no lie, do you know how hard I would have to work to make that? I told her I would file for alimony, she was like what!!
I worked 50 plus hours a week, then commuted 15 hours plus got the kids up, fed them took them to the bus and was up at work before you even got out of bed.
Btw, I also told her jewelry, like the wedding and engagement rings were property that could be divided. She got real weird, llike why would she want them.
I also busted on her confidant she acts like it’s normal that a woman asks another man about her husband.
I broke DB rules and asked her plans, where she would live etc. Answer I don’t I haven’t given it a lot of thought.
BS there’s a plan. And before anyone jumps me, she only has access to her own account which has 50 k in it,
Oh yeah, no boyfriend, I’m crazy.
I can’t remember what it was but she told me I should do something, yeah, I’ll do the 180, you do not have anyone else’s best interests in mind.
