The whole covid thing kind of did a number on the travel plans, but I was setting something up yesterday, so when restrictions are relaxed, I’m good to go.

DB coach also said quit covering for W. It’s going to be tough when my kids find out, they think we have a good marriage. What just amazes me is that W can have an OM when she has 2 beautiful daughters that will learn how to form their relationships from her. The two talks we had the only thing that registered with W was when I told her Ds won’t respect her.

It’s weird W has been kind of normal the last couple days. Thanksgiving was fine, and we played a board game after eating that was fun. This morning she came out of her bedroom, said good morning and made coffee for both of us. Sat down and read the paper, deja vu all over again. I don’t expect it to last.

The best day I had since Bomb Drop was last Friday. I was googling her name and came across a review of her from 2019 as a Mental Health counselor. The review stated my W was terrible because she allegedly told a couple in crises that they should not be married, and W is callous and immoral. I lmao. I showed it to her and she was p!ssed. She went digging thru her notes to see if she could find out who it is. Hello, you bomb dropped me without a second thought so obviously you are callous, and in an affair so therefore immoral. It’s like her brain was completely compartmentalized.

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Me 57/W 53, M 23, T 27

D21/D17

BDay 6/29/20, ILYBINILWY

IHS 10/5/2020