I'm still waiting for CS. Waiting for it to come as intended, as stated in the agreement. I should not have to wait.

I've asked, in the nicest way, trying to keep it business.

CanBird: "Hi, Just so there's no troubles for either of us, C.S. should be followed by what's in the agreement we signed."
...(I then provided auto trans details, I went onto another topic & ended with small talk & well wishes)

XH: "Don't understand what you mean by troubles"

I can't believe he just can't say OKAY. or Will do.

I understand his thinking, and don't agree with it. He thinks I should use the rental income towards D4s CS.
Do I HAVE to spell it out for him? That's not in the agreement AND after making other payments for the rental (a loan and bills) there isn't enough money for her full CS. I do not want to rely on that income for her CS. I don't want to use part of it and have to ask him to cover the rest.

I don't think it is wise to dip into the rental funds for something he should be paying from his account. If he wants me transfer his portion of the rental funds (after payments have been applied) I will GLADLEY do so. As for now, the income sits in our joint account. That's got to change. SOMEthing has to change...


PS- Yesterday I got myself set up for auto insurance & today I got set up for my own phone plan.
I made sure to let XH know.

Last edited by CanBird; 11/28/20 09:11 PM.
~Never Give Up ~
2019
Mar BD
June BD
Dec Aow/xgf
2020
Jan he wants D
Feb he flys2 ow
Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn
Apr he leaves for work until Nov
Oct D FINAL 2020
Living MY Happiest Life Ever