I am feeling low, confused and not so detached at the moment. I think I need to come up with some sort of conversation to stop this whole projection from being mine to deal with. Any suggestions welcome.
H’s projections are not your fault nor your problem. Let them go.
I am going to pass on some very wise words:
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'mama, I see that Daddy wants to be around you, hugs you and acts like he wants the divorce to go away and then he starts to act weird again. That must be really confusing for you and probably makes you really sad.'
Listen to those wise words.
Yes, H’s behaviour is going to be confusing. Detach yourself from his behaviour and his projections. Time and space. Focus on you and your kids.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
