Yeah, Job, I read all the links. I’ve been a lurker since July.

Not that it makes any difference, but I say MLC because I can in retrospect see the anger stage and now replay because she is reverting to very unladylike behavior she had in college. Now this was before we met, so I don’t hold it against her. It broke my heart because she was a wonderful partner (Who I know I won’t be seeing again) and it upped the empathy quotient.

So what am I seeing?
Excessive working out
Change in diet less carbs more protein and veggies
Buys and wears much more makeup
Spends way more time getting ready to go out...to grocery store!
Stopped wearing rings except for work
More form fitting clothes, but tasteful
Detachment from kids


Me 57/W 53, M 23, T 27

D21/D17

BDay 6/29/20, ILYBINILWY

IHS 10/5/2020