Thanks for the reply, and catching that. Looks like I was thinking quicker than I typed.
I meant to say that at the onset of this I started to read, and found DB/DR, but no matter what, she seemed to be running to the door.
On the paper/filing issue, we filed them together and it was done/finalized the same day.My ex wife moved out/ was living with my family, who I think was quasi trying to help us, and maybe help me on the divorce end. Ex wife's family did not care for me, and I received word that ex/her rich dad were gonna hire a fancy lawyer to handle divorce. I don't have much to get, and am not rich, but divorce can set a guy back forever. My thought was lets get it done and at the least get the financial part taken care of, so I am not facing that in addition to the difficulty of the relationship portion.She mentioned it 3-4 times, including saying we are getting a divorce.