I guess it strikes me as odd that she reaches out every 4 days to a week following divorce. Assuming she wants attention/ego stroking, and I haven't interacted much.
My question is for the LBH, how long does it take to rebuild your confidence? I usually don't have much trouble in that regard, but I feel like I've been ran through the ringer and had every bad thing said to me that could be. I was strong at the time, and trying to re-frame things, but it does wear on a guy.
Do both parties in a D usually come up with regrets/mistakes? It [censored] to get blamed for all of it, or told that "we wouldn't be here if it wasn't for you." The way I see it I don't deserve to own 100% of more than 50%, and I've owned my issues since it headed south a few months ago.
