Wondering how the incident and his apology are sitting now, a few days later. I know it has been some time since you've seen that side of him and it has to really feel terrible. But.... I also wonder if it had to happen again for him both to experience true remorse and field a real apology to you, and for him to see that even though it happened, you were able to handle it with maturity (I love that you just told him what was what and then rolled over and went to sleep), and that you two could repair. maybe this was the last gasp of that kind of behavior.
Hope you are well,
M
Me (46) H (42) M:14 T:18, D9 & D11 4/19 - 12/19: series of escalating BDs 9/20 - present: R and piecing
