KC, sounds like he's the one not talking to you. You text, he doesn't reply. What am I missing here? Honestly it sounds like you're his booty call, probably one of many. When you text asking if something is wrong or whatever, he's very quick to deflect it to you and blame you for not being communicative. When you find the right person, the two of you will COMMUNICATE. You will talk TO EACH OTHER. You'll talk for hours and wonder where the time went. You'll share your thoughts about everything from aliens to the number of planets in the universe to life after death over a bottle of wine without even thinking about sex. You'll feel connected.
QUIT WASTING TIME WITH GUYS THAT JUST WANT BETWEEN YOUR LEGS.