Hey KitCat, I'm an introvert, too! Most people peg me as an extrovert--I lead a large organization, I give public speeches, and people often turn to me to close sales. The day I realized I was an introvert, a customer told me the ink was dry on a sale so and we have a lot in common, would I like to go out for a beer and chill? I liked them, but after 4hrs around other people, all I wanted was to go home and be alone. I need to be alone to recharge--the telltale sign of an introvert. Gatherings wear me out. There's nothing wrong with that. Bill Gates is, as you probably know, an introvert and successful by almost any measure.
Introvert and proud. Explain your needs. Don't apologize for them. Don't try to be what you're not. You are amazing in your own way and if you give it time someone will fall for who you are.
Originally Posted by KitCat
He says - you don't talk to me ===== this is my reason that I can use that sounds kinder than "I'm not that into you".
My current GF laughs that some characteristics I find cute on her I considered problems in others. A prime one is that sometimes she lounges in bed for an extra hour. I use that time to sleep, read, snuggle, or we get intimate. At least two past relationships destabilized when they wanted to stay in bed and I started my day without them. I couldn't see myself "wasting" an hour. Maybe, like the pilot, I wasn't that into them.
