I would just rather spend the holiday all by myself with a box of stovetop stuffing and a bottle of wine. I have to keep this boundary because keeping it allows me to be able to be as friendly and forgiving as I am now. I will become resentful and upset if I spend the holiday with them, I know it.
So this is where I stand right now. Certainly not where I want to be at all, but it’s where I am.
Thanks for the positive vibes. I really need them
Stovetop stuffing is my go-to. I cook up sausage meat and mix that in. One of the things my ex-wife did that I kept because it is delish.
Careful of the ex-H - from the outside it does look like he's trying to draw you more and more into his orbit. You're pretty vulnerable these days.
((Ginger))
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