Wooba being abroad for this is messy and I'm sorry. A couple of things. 1) When I was finally done with exH I left with our clothes, some kitchen stuff, and my family's heirloom Xmas ornaments I had to start from scratch and I was basically destitute. I was on food share for a little while. It was completely and totally worth it. We were living with a friend in a spare room for a little while. Then a tiny studio. I thought it would be horrible going from a 3 bedroom house with a drive and a yard. It wasn't. It was perfect and was exactly what we needed to heal together away from exH. 2) I know you're only entitled to 15% (which seems absolutely bonkers to me for 3 kids) are you entitled to other things spousal support, 1/2 the assets/retirement/marital property? Is there something your L can fight for that would put your books into a better balance?
