Well, you did say you made it clear to everyone up front that you were only separated and not looking for anything serious, just friends. So is a guy who probably wants nothing serious either. Just fun dates and sex.
So, does this mean you are now going to say “I’m separated and I still have feeling a for my husband , but I do want more of a relationship than just a FWB”
Bake instead. It’s safer.
I hope you are using protection
Well I really wasn't looking for anything more at the time??? I didn't feel I'd find anything I'd want something to be more committed too??? If that makes sense?
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And bTW, you probably don’t hear from him because he is with his Saturday and Sunday dates.
Maybe???
I know he kind of complains about how quiet I am - I'm more of an introvert. So perhaps that part of the issue??? He will reply to my text, even this morning. But, he isn't initiated that much in the last 3 days and he certainly isn't showing interest in what I'm doing or up too... so that's a clear red flag. And, I wasn't supposed to like him this much either.
So making plans with a couple of new guys.
And CW - I'm completely comfortable in being alone. I've got lots of great hobbies that keep me busy but I realized my mind was getting mushy and it often drifted back to my H. Its been great to go days at a time and not have my head go there. Its just fun getting out. I can go out to a restaurant or a bar alone and being completely fine... it doesn't bother me. What I'm missing is interaction and conversation... it has helped my mood immensely.
