Glad you're out having fun and not locking-in exclusively with pilot guy!
Ginger has a point--you say you're unsatisfied with pilot guy in part because you want "more", but you advertised that you wanted "less". Is it possible you're not being entirely honest with yourself about your goals? I see wisdom in working on yourself before dating, but I didn't manage that myself for long. If you're advertising you're seeking less but actually want more, consider changing your advertising, and working out your must-haves and can't-stands, to improve your odds of winding up with better.
I have an old friend who can't stand being alone, insists she's just looking for casual hookups, then falls hard for people that she never would've considered if she were honest she was seeking a relationship. I'm aghast her current partner made the local news for allegedly abusing his own children. Getting over her ex before dating seriously would've helped immensely. Being up-front about her goals would've helped.
Originally Posted by Ginger
And bTW, you probably don’t hear from him because he is with his Saturday and Sunday dates.
Of course. This is the nature of the beast that is modern (multi-)dating.
