What LH said.
Plus (if you meet/phone to talk) make sure you apologize for violating/intruding her personal space.
Don’t get into explaining yourself. Apologize and then validate.
Likely she will want to talk about something else as well since she suggested you talk?


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021