What LH said. Plus (if you meet/phone to talk) make sure you apologize for violating/intruding her personal space. Don’t get into explaining yourself. Apologize and then validate. Likely she will want to talk about something else as well since she suggested you talk?
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021