Well I really screwed up. I'm in crisis mode here. I just received a letter from my wife telling me that she has discovered that I have been spying on her cell phone. I know, I screwed up but my insecurities got the best of me. Feel like [censored]. She told me in the letter that we are done. She said she can't believe that I have crushed her again. She said that this is the end of us as a couple. She doesn't want to be my wife anymore. I don't know what to do. Any chance of a reconciliation is gone. She won't take my calls. I texted her and said that I spyed because of my insecurities and the fear that she would meet someone else. There was never any proof of someone else but my mind got the better of me and my paranoia grew. I was trying to be open and transparent with her. I have broken her trust again and hurt her deeply. She said we could talk Tuesday. Not sure even what to say. What do I do here?
