Thank you Ownit. I sent him a msg. and did feel some relief in doing so.
I followed your suggestion of auto transfer. (Instead of checks as he suggested).
Before doing so I found myself coming up with excuses for his late payment (ie: he works very remotely at sea & is the boss of a small vessel, finishing up the season which is busy & stressful). Regardless of why, he needs to obey the agreement that was put forward by a court of law.
*When contacting him I make sure to include details like dates & $$ amounts, what pg of our agreement support payments are on. Etc etc. I look at each interaction like business, and if we need to go back and review anything there will be no confusion & clear evidence as to what each message meant.*
Well see how he replies.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever