That sounds rough Gigi!
Sorry if this is a hijack but might help you as well.
At what point do you tell YOUR KIDS you don’t want to hear?
Or rather HOW do you tell them?

I know I won’t want to hear about details while at mommy’s, certainly not if OM is there.
I’m not there yet but interesting to hear how other have approached it.

Last edited by Mumin; 11/22/20 03:58 PM.
Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021