That reply is as generous as you could have hoped for--I hope it's what you need to let go. She is a serial cheater so this marriage probably hasn't been worth fighting for, for a very long time.
Originally Posted by Steve_
never speak to me again
You don't control her. She can and probably will contact you to vent, control, and/or temperature check.
Originally Posted by Steve_
I’ll update here and there but I am no longer trying to save my marriage.
The steps are the same--NC, GAL, detach, and don't rush into dating or alcohol to fill the void.