She chose him. Told me I had chances for 11 years. I replied this “you quit on me years ago, I would have given you the world. All you ever had to do was try and not look for other men to fix you.”
She said “I’m finally ok and the kids will be well taken care of”
I relied “my fight is over, I loved you this entire time until today never speak to me again unless absolutely necessary. Let me enjoy the little time I get with my kids” I sent her a GIF of captain America saluting. And that was that.
Hardest thing I ever did. But I know she isn’t coming back. I denied it, I fought it, I thought I could read some things or pull some stunts to fix this. Yep I can’t. At least now I know where her heart really lies. I suppose I known for a long time. Just kept refusing to see it. As much as it devastated me it freed me. She said I deserve someone who loves me. That’s when I knew she has let go and everything she said is BS. I won’t speak to her anymore believe that. After this she totally broke me. Showed me how stupid I was for fighting for her. You cannot save someone who doesn’t want to be saved. I’ll stick to the boards. I’ll update here and there but I am no longer trying to save my marriage. It’s been over for a long time I know it. I just have to train myself to accept it.
Last edited by Steve_; 11/22/2004:22 AM.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.
