I have tried to avoid talking about my R with my D as I do not think she needs to know all about the situation. When he told her he was going to ask me for a D, her response to him was she thought he was having a MLC.
I have discussed small particulars as needed, but she is unaware of OW, in fact, he does not know that I know. It will come out eventually that I know to him, but now is not the time.
I have told her that I am wanting to stand for my marriage and I am hoping he will come out of his fog. I do show in some ways how I am getting on with my life as I do not know my limit.
I have been looking at ways to up date the home, my choices. With the house being full, I am hoping to continue to purge and get some things that I like to make it more me.
I am really focusing on him not wearing on me, since if I want to think about it, it could bring me down deep.
D is hoping to get a work from home job in the next year and make an effort to travel abroad and stay a few months. We discussed me visiting when she finds a place. Me, not mom and dad. So that is the plan!
