Originally Posted by Steve_
In her mind she still has me and that has to stop. She has to say it to feel it. [S]he has to make the choice now that her secret is unraveled. That is what it will take for us to move on. She has never been able to do that. It is neccesary. And painful but I’m ready.

Steve, you don't control her. She doesn't have to say it just because you want her to.