But she keeps giving me this fake remorse crap. Telling me she doesn’t want to decide and doesn’t know. So I’m pushing her into a corner. She will chose him I’m sure of it and then it can be over. That’s all I want now. For her to realize she has to decide and live with it. I was too weak this whole time, I have to draw a line in the sand and be willing to not look back. I am ready now. I was not before. The more days that pass she disgusts me, disappoints me, I just want it to be over and her to stop flip-flopping. I am beginning to hate her. So I need the back and forth to end. On my terms not hers. That’s all this is about. Taking my power back having the respect for myself that is why the ultimatum. I know it won’t go the way I want already. I just want a clean break. I told her answer me “yes or no” no more words, no more time. I’ll let you know what she says in 4 days. Otherwise I don’t speak to her I just hang out with my kids. I have not backslid on that.
Last edited by Steve_; 11/19/2006:35 PM.
T:11 M:10 K: D5, S7 BD: 9/1/20 WW continues to break up and recon with OM. I paid last fees and pushed the D 5/3/2021 Default Dissolution granted 8/5/21. Glad my D was not busted.