OK, I think the heads-up text is not a big deal.

There's 3 reasons why you would not want to send it (summarizing what everyone is saying here):

1. She may dodge service and run out the clock (sounds unlikely).
2. Your X is a horrible person (not the case).
3. You are expecting an R talk or some connection (NGS - not the case).

In my case, #1 was a concern and #2 helped.