I read No more Mr.Nice Guy and none of it seemed familiar to me. Like LH says, I wasn't looking for a reaction. I was just going to file but then others, I think AS and someone else, said it was the respectful thing to do. But in my situation, I think either way would have been fine.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019