Let her experience what she needs to experience! Stop protecting her and trying to rescue her. That is no longer your job. You will try to cover it up by feeding us a bunch of stuff, and say it feels like the decent thing to do. Hello Mr. Nice Guy!

If you seriously think your heads-up won't lead to a big R talk,.........then you are in denial, and maybe unconsciously you want to hear from her.

There will ALWAYS be an excuse to contact, until you finally decide enough is enough. So, which one of you are suffering the withdrawal in this separation? It's not her.

Besides, WW's need to be shocked, blind-sighted, kicked in the gut, and the whole nine yards. When will you realize your nice guy techniques don't reap positive results from a WW?




Last edited by sandi2; 11/19/20 12:00 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!