Completely agree, what we have been through is so shocking and unexpected and not something you would wish on anyone! Yet at the same time, we wouldn't be the better versions of ourselves we are without the experience. It's interesting how life works this way.
And how unfortunate most people won't see these situations as opportunities to grow and learn.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019