NEED OPINIONS PLEASE..... yesterday, my daughter was upset and she told me that well she was helping my ex sister in-law and mother-in-law go through a bag of old clothes that I had given them to send to Poland, they started talking about me and how they miss the good old days, and how they wish things were back to the way they used to be and that it is too bad that I don't want to work things out! Now my daughter knows that I wanted to work it out and that her dad wants to keep things the way they are. She told them that she wanted to set them straight, but that she didn't. I told her that I was glad that she didn't because she shouldn't get in the middle of this. But now I want to set the record straight!!!!!!!! I was tossing and turning all night over it. Should I tell his mother that I wanted to work things out and that her son doesn't or should I confront my ex and tell him--not that he would tell her the truth, but just to let him know or just shut up and let it go??????