Hey Ben! Nice to hear from you. You seem to be doing great! I think it is wise to move your attention away from here unless you intend to post advice.
Originally Posted by BenB
But then there's this feeling of how sad it is that XW and I ended this way. It was such a beautiful love story, the way we met and all we have been through. I don't think that feeling will ever go away, but I will learn to live with it. I use the pain to move forward and pursue a better life in every aspect.
This is very similar to how I feel. You are a bit further in the journey of course.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021