I think having strong faith or not makes a difference.
For those who don’t having a fling and ONS is just healthy for any single. Male or female.
Given they can stay uncommitted and detached that is. I think that is the main question.

Many of my friends (female and male) have had several uncommitted relationships.
Doing that less than a year after BD is risky business but not necessarily unhealthy IMO.
Wolfman is the prime example of what COULD happen.

Last edited by Mumin; 11/17/20 11:26 AM.
Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021