Totally agree on that CW and thank you for clearing this up!
It just makes me so angry to see such reckless parents so I wanted to state MY opinion.

Steve, if you arent, collect all questionable interactions as CW said. Date and a description of what happend.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021