Again Steve, start committing to you path and your goals!
Sometimes communicating your goals to someone can help commitment.

“You need to call your son, I’m tired of him disrespecting me”
This comment should really be enough though. Those type of comments make me so angry.
I say throw your moron of a W away for good and never look back.
That right there is IMO enough for you to pursue FULL custody. I know most wont agree but it is my opinion.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021