So LH, this is probably a pointless question but and maybe you'll tap my knuckles with the ruler, but do you think my W (and OnlyBent's) are turning things on for their AP/OM only to have the same issue a year or two or three down the road? Or, is it something wrong with us personally and the OM will be better? I know I'm not supposed to detach and care about that but the question is in the back of my mind wondering if it's me or W.
1) - Why care ? Life now for you - set a goal for that year or two and work to making it happen. 2) - Most affairs do not last two or three years... fact.. Circumstances can impact on this such as moving in together etc ( ie if they only see each other once a week and dont live together there is probably less friction / arguments ) 3) - I know a lot of people who have had affairs. I only know of 2 couples who have lasted over 5 years. my WW father is still with the lady he left WW mum for, BUT its not a stable happy relationship - both have had multiple affairs.
But at the end of the day - focus on you - not where she will be in 3 weeks, 6 months, 1 year or 5 years.
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
