well, I guess it's over not sure. I told ex tonight that I spoke with the c and was disappointed that he didn't have the guts to tell me what she said herself. he said that he didn't want to "get into" it with me and that there was nothing to reconile because you only do that when you are getting along. I said that I was glad to know that we know where eachother stands. I think I will just do the "act as if" and take it one day at a time, but if he asked to to dinner or on anymore bike rides I think I will pass. Heck I only brought the bike because he had one and we got our d one, so I figured I would get one and we could do something as a family since we have never done that before.