Hi there, I'm sorry to read about the incredible ambiguity coming from your XH.
Quote: ex tells me that if I need to know anything else, call c.l well she called me back today, at work no less and tells me that there is no reason for a "couples" session because there are no two interested parties. my ex told her that he has no intention of ever getting back with me, he wishes not to reconcile or remarry me!!!! this was very, very hard coming from a stranger and not ex. she asked me why he didn't tell me this himself and I had no answer.
IMHO, you need to ask him why you had to learn this from C. In a calm rational manner, and be open to whatever his answer may be.
Quote: I don't know what to do??? am I wasting my time, I have just had a 2x4 in the head do I go back for more???? then he starts talking about the dance competition in july and that after that we wants us to go to DC what does this mean???
This is just my perspective, I feel that we need to decide whether we want to be with these people or not, and only then can we decide whether the DBing will work. But then, I have been at this process for just 3 months, and am still at the point where I have faith in the process. Do you feel up to dbing all over again?
I'll try to go back to the anitasues threads. Hope this was of some use. Slowly
