well nitaf, he is off the fence and he went back inside the house!! He had his individual session last wednesday. Our d was at a sleep over on friday, perfect time for us to be alone. in the 13 yrs married we have never had this opportunity before. I called and left a message about our d dance recital tickets and he called me back and we made small talk. He said that he was going for a bike ride and I asked if I could stop by and show him a birthstone ring I had brought our d for her b-day and he said sure. We I went over there, I didn't have too but I figured it would be good to be alone and talk. He came out and greeted me at the door outside and he talked in the driveway. I was freezing, it was really cold out. we made small talk then I told him i needed to go get something to eat, he stated that he didn't eat and that he was going inside to make eggs and said goodbye. If d was there, he would have invited me in for eggs,. so i left disappointed. then this past sunday, d was sick in bed when I came over, when d was in the bathroom I asked ex how did the session go because I had a prescheduled appt for this wed (6-2) he stated that everything was fine and that he just told me that he loved me because the counselor said that it was because the dog had died )previous thread) and that he just didn't want to see me upset. and that the counselor and him have decided to cancel the wed appt! I was so mad, I wasn't even included in this decision. ex said that if I have any questions, the counselor told him to tell me to call her and she would be happy to meet with me. I called and left a message on her machine and she has not returned my call. our d asked if we were going to try and work things out and I told her no, things are just going to stay the way they are. Next thing I know its almost dinner time and ex asks me if I want a burger and then we all have supper together. I know that being friendly with the ex is good for the child's sake, but I feel that he does more but now I am just going to lay low I guess. Our d is going to maryland for a dance competitn and ex just informed me that after the competition, we are going to DC--are these actions of someone who still would like to get back with their ex wife or what, he is really messing my head up. any advice would be greatly welcomed!
