Seems silly. Just say the truth! This is the time of year he'd be returning from his seasonal job. EVERYONE is asking. I hate it. I hate it less than last year..lol ...at least I'm not in limbo and I know he's not coming home. Even though he has a D4, that he hasn't physically seen him since April (due to his work...and this is normal) I'm 99.9% sure he will come to this state when he's done work.
Neighbors will be easier to talk with. They always saythings like "..he'll be home soon?..when will he be home?" . ... How do I say it? I'm really not sure of his plans, things are different...(insert "break-up" hand gesture here). My D4 is always with me, and she doesn't know.
Close friends ask. If D4 is not with me I will open up. Then these's the friends that live else where. Asking via text or through social media. I've just skirted around the question. I know its not right. They deserve the truth.
I havent said anything to my D4. Do I? She's so use to him not being hete, since birth really, he's always worked away 1/2 the year. It's normal for her & I. Now he's just traveling and when he wants to see her he will/can. *He did make an effort while at work to have contact via video chats..etc etc.* now everything has stopped. Nothing since Halloween. His loss. I dont force her to contact him either. I just follow her lead on that.
How do you say it? I hate the big D word. "We're not together.. things have changed"... People can come to their own conclusions. I do add that it's not what I wanted.
Not taking out a billboard add, but gearing up for more reveals.
~Never Give Up ~ 2019 Mar BD June BD Dec Aow/xgf 2020 Jan he wants D Feb he flys2 ow Mar returns stuck here C19 Lckdwn Apr he leaves for work until Nov Oct D FINAL 2020 Living MY Happiest Life Ever
